Monday, December 28, 2009

All Grown Up

I am now the mother of an 18 year old. When I think back, I can still remember the day he was born and the doctor laid him in my arms the very first time. A lot of memories have been made since that day. He did not come with a manual but I tried my best. I made many mistakes but I think I did a lot of things right too! I hope he forgives the mistakes and has fond memories of the things I did right. Some of my fondest memories are as follows:

Giving him baths as a baby and toddler
Watching him coo in his crib or on the floor while playing with his toys
The way he ate cheerios when he was little by nibbling each individual O
Cubscouts and Boyscouts activities
Learning how to take care of him
Sitting in church together
His baptism
The first time he passed the Sacrament of the Lord
Doing yarden work together
Enjoying the same books and movies
Vistans ROC
Service in the community
Cleaning the church together
Our chats in the car, as we worked together, etc.
Family Home Evenings

These are some of my favorite memories........I look forward to the new ones to be made as my little dude ventures out to make new memories to be enjoyed.

Monday, December 21, 2009

Eagle Scout Helps Deployed Soldiers

Here is an article on Tobi's eagle project. He had his board of review on December 14, 2009 and is an official Eagle Scout.

HICKAM AIR FORCE BASE, Hawaii (Nov. 30, 2009) - When the Soldiers of the 558th Military Police Company held their deployment ceremony last August, they had no idea that one spectator in the crowd would play a big part in raising their morale months later.

Toby Bledsoe, a Boy Scout with Troop 135 here, decided to make care packages for deployed Soldiers for his Eagle Scout project after witnessing his first deployment ceremony.

"The ceremony was kind of sad because there weren\'t a lot of family members there, and the commander asked how many Soldiers were going on their first deployment and more than half raised their hands," he said.

Bledsoe, the son of a retired Navy Chief, organized the care package project from start to finish. He briefed the Boy Scout troop on his concept for the project, recruited the boys to go to the Hickam commissary to ask for donations, and coordinated with the commissary manager so that he could solicit outside. Bledsoe also designed printed flyers that the troop handed out to commissary patrons, listing non-perishables that shoppers could pick up during their shopping trip.

"The response was tremendous," said assistant Scoutmaster Scott Dooley. "The biggest supporters were the old veterans - veterans of World War Two, Korea, and Vietnam. One gentleman told me that he wished that the scouts would've done something like this for him when he was in Vietnam. He said a small gesture like a care package makes all the difference in the world when you're deployed."

Each time the project started to seem out of reach, Bledsoe reminded himself what the 558th MP Soldiers were enduring in Iraq.

"I can just imagine it being 120 degrees with all of their gear on, and maybe they are feeling kind of down, but then they get a care package and realize that someone cares about what they are doing," he said.

Toby shipped more than 400 pounds of non-perishable items like beef jerky, Chap Stick, drink mixes, canned nuts, and bags of trail mix, Nov. 28.

"The actions of this young man are truly what this nation and our Army are all about," said Maj. Chris Heberer, executive officer, 728th Military Police Battalion. "His selfless service and support to our deployed Soldiers cannot be measured especially during the Holidays when our Soldiers get ready to spend it apart from their families."

"A project like this teaches a young man like Toby a slew of leadership skills, such as how to task organize and how to bring a group together into a team to accomplish a job," Dooley said. "Toby contacted the 558th MP company commander, the rear detachment commander and got approval from the 728th MP battalion commander for the project, who presented him with a battalion coin."

Toby is a non-traditional Eagle Scout candidate, who just about gave up his dream of ever achieving the pinnacle of Scouting. He was failing out of high school until a friend told him about the Hawaii National Guard Youth Challenge Academy. Following 22 weeks of academics, physical fitness challenges, and lessons on life skills, Toby got back on track and credits his Boy Scout Troops leaders - Fred McMillan, Sr., Fred Gellert and Dooley - with motivating him to finish his Eagle Scout project.

"They are some of the best leaders I've had in Scouting," he said. "I must admit, I started to drift away on my project because I started going to college, working two jobs to pay for college so I was having second thoughts about finishing the project. They've helped me tremendously."

To achieve the rank of Eagle Scout, a Boy Scout must earn 21 merit badges; progress through the ranks of scouting; serve six months in a troop leadership position; take part in a Scoutmaster conference; plan, develop, and lead a service project; and successfully complete an Eagle Scout board of review. Since 1912, only five percent of all Boy Scouts earned the rank of Eagle Scout.
Bledsoe has some simple advice for any boy considering scouting.

"Do it," he said. "Not only does it teach you Scouting skills, it teaches you how to deal with people, how to put together a project, and do it well and on time, it teaches you how to be a better person."

Eagle Scout Helps Deployed Soldiers

Here is an article on Tobi's eagle project. He had his board of review on December 14, 2009 and is an official Eagle Scout.

HICKAM AIR FORCE BASE, Hawaii (Nov. 30, 2009) - When the Soldiers of the 558th Military Police Company held their deployment ceremony last August, they had no idea that one spectator in the crowd would play a big part in raising their morale months later.

Toby Bledsoe, a Boy Scout with Troop 135 here, decided to make care packages for deployed Soldiers for his Eagle Scout project after witnessing his first deployment ceremony.

"The ceremony was kind of sad because there weren\'t a lot of family members there, and the commander asked how many Soldiers were going on their first deployment and more than half raised their hands," he said.

Bledsoe, the son of a retired Navy Chief, organized the care package project from start to finish. He briefed the Boy Scout troop on his concept for the project, recruited the boys to go to the Hickam commissary to ask for donations, and coordinated with the commissary manager so that he could solicit outside. Bledsoe also designed printed flyers that the troop handed out to commissary patrons, listing non-perishables that shoppers could pick up during their shopping trip.

"The response was tremendous," said assistant Scoutmaster Scott Dooley. "The biggest supporters were the old veterans - veterans of World War Two, Korea, and Vietnam. One gentleman told me that he wished that the scouts would've done something like this for him when he was in Vietnam. He said a small gesture like a care package makes all the difference in the world when you're deployed."

Each time the project started to seem out of reach, Bledsoe reminded himself what the 558th MP Soldiers were enduring in Iraq.

"I can just imagine it being 120 degrees with all of their gear on, and maybe they are feeling kind of down, but then they get a care package and realize that someone cares about what they are doing," he said.

Toby shipped more than 400 pounds of non-perishable items like beef jerky, Chap Stick, drink mixes, canned nuts, and bags of trail mix, Nov. 28.

"The actions of this young man are truly what this nation and our Army are all about," said Maj. Chris Heberer, executive officer, 728th Military Police Battalion. "His selfless service and support to our deployed Soldiers cannot be measured especially during the Holidays when our Soldiers get ready to spend it apart from their families."

"A project like this teaches a young man like Toby a slew of leadership skills, such as how to task organize and how to bring a group together into a team to accomplish a job," Dooley said. "Toby contacted the 558th MP company commander, the rear detachment commander and got approval from the 728th MP battalion commander for the project, who presented him with a battalion coin."

Toby is a non-traditional Eagle Scout candidate, who just about gave up his dream of ever achieving the pinnacle of Scouting. He was failing out of high school until a friend told him about the Hawaii National Guard Youth Challenge Academy. Following 22 weeks of academics, physical fitness challenges, and lessons on life skills, Toby got back on track and credits his Boy Scout Troops leaders - Fred McMillan, Sr., Fred Gellert and Dooley - with motivating him to finish his Eagle Scout project.

"They are some of the best leaders I've had in Scouting," he said. "I must admit, I started to drift away on my project because I started going to college, working two jobs to pay for college so I was having second thoughts about finishing the project. They've helped me tremendously."

To achieve the rank of Eagle Scout, a Boy Scout must earn 21 merit badges; progress through the ranks of scouting; serve six months in a troop leadership position; take part in a Scoutmaster conference; plan, develop, and lead a service project; and successfully complete an Eagle Scout board of review. Since 1912, only five percent of all Boy Scouts earned the rank of Eagle Scout.
Bledsoe has some simple advice for any boy considering scouting.

"Do it," he said. "Not only does it teach you Scouting skills, it teaches you how to deal with people, how to put together a project, and do it well and on time, it teaches you how to be a better person."


Reason for the Season

White Envelopes
It's just a small, white envelope stuck among the branches of our Christmas tree. No name, no identification, no inscription. It has peeked through the branches of our tree for the past 10 years or so.
It all began because my husband Mike hated Christmas. Oh, not the true meaning of Christmas, but the commercial aspects of it, overspending, the frantic running around at the last minute to get a tie for Uncle Harry and the dusting powder for Grandma, the gifts given in desperation because you couldn't think of anything else.
Knowing he felt this way, I decided one year to bypass the usual shirts, sweaters, ties and so forth. I reached for something special just for Mike. The inspiration came in an unusual way. Our son, Kevin, who was 12 that year was wrestling at the junior level at the school he attended, and shortly before Christmas, there was a non-league match against a team sponsored by an inner-city church.
These youngsters, dressed in sneakers so ragged that shoestrings seemed to be the only thing holding them together, presented a sharp contrast to our boys in the spiffy blue and gold uniforms and sparkling new wrestling shoes. As the match began I was alarmed to see that the other team was wrestling without headgear, a kind of light helmet designed to protect a wrestler's ears. It was a luxury the ragtag team obviously could not afford. Well, we ended up walloping them. We took every weight class. And as each of their boys got up from the mat, he swaggered around in his tatters with false bravado, a kind of street pride that couldn't acknowledge defeat. Mike, seated beside me, shook his head sadly, "I wish one of them could have won," he said. "They have a lot of potential, but losing like this could take the heart right out of them." Mike loved kids, all kids, and he knew them, having coached little league football, baseball and lacrosse.
That's when the idea of his present came. That afternoon, I went to a local sporting goods store and bought an assortment of wrestling headgear and shoes and sent them anonymously to the inner-city church. On Christmas Eve, I placed the envelope on the tree, the note inside telling Mike what I had done and that this was his gift from me. His smile was the brightest thing about Christmas that year and in succeeding years. For each Christmas, I followed the tradition, one year sending a group of mentally handicapped youngsters to a hockey game, another year a check to a pair of elderly brothers whose home had burned to the ground the week before Christmas, and on and on. The envelope became the highlight of our Christmas. It was always the last thing opened on Christmas morning and our children, ignoring their new toys, would stand with wide-eyed anticipation as their dad lifted the envelope from the tree to reveal its contents. As the children grew, the toys gave way to more practical presents, but the envelope never lost its allure. The story doesn't end there.
You see we lost Mike last year due to dreaded cancer. When Christmas rolled around, I was still so wrapped in grief that I barely got the tree up. But Christmas Eve found me placing an envelope on the tree, and in the morning, it was joined by three more.
Each of our children, unbeknownst to the others, had placed an envelope on the tree for their dad. The tradition has grown and someday will expand even further with our grandchildren standing around the tree with wide-eyed anticipation watching as their fathers take down the envelope. Mike's spirit, like the Christmas spirit, will always be with us.
Nancy W. Gavin
This story is a true story and inspired four siblings from Atlanta, GA to start The White Envelope Project, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting this tradition and charitable giving. The White Envelope Project founders are regularly in touch with the family in the article and are thrilled to have their support. The Gavin family and now thousands of others continue to celebrate the "white envelope" tradition each year. For more information about The White Envelope Project or to honor a loved one through a "white envelope" gift this year, please visit their website: www.WhiteEnvelopeProject.org

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Christmas Spiritual Sunday

Today was our Christmas program. We did an awesome job of praising the Lord Jesus Christ through song and scripture. It was a lot of hard work and many practices but we did an awesome job and I know that He would be proud of how we celebrated His birthday!

In Sunday School we talked about the Savior and then saw a beautiful film the covered the aspects of His life.

In Relief Society the lesson was on the Martyrdom of Jospeh Smith. It was an uplifting lesson about how much he did for the world in restoring the gospel of Jesus Christ. We talked about the martyrdom but also the tremendous things we have because of his sacrifice. One of the sisters mentioned that we need to not just listen and hear the story but hold it in our hearts and become better people. To sustain and honor our leaders today, both our worldwide, stake and ward leaders. In so doing we are honoring the Lord.

Day of business a very Super Saturday

Yesterday was a very super Saturday. My sweetheart came and helped the sisters clean the church so we got there a little late at 8:30 a.m. Started at 8:00 a.m. but I was okay being late if my sweetheart was coming with me. Then he was so patient and sat and listened to our choir practice for today's Christmas program. We practiced until 11:30 a.m. Came home and we did laundry, worked in the yarden and did some other things around the house. It was a super Saturday that we got lots done but mostly because we did it all together!!!

The Family Year in Review

My Sweetheart and I have several adventures to note in 2009. First mom and dad S. made the wise decision to stop driving. So now we have the great privilege of going to see them and help them get stocked up for 6 months until our next visit. We are trying for every 6 months right now. In May I had a mixed blessing of going to Idaho. It had been close to 12 years since her last visit to see the family. She got to say good-bye to Gramps and now he is with his sweetheart. It was great to reconnect with family and make friendships again with her sweet sisters. It was also the first time to meet many of the nieces and nephews. What a blessing!! In October, Skinny Sis's family stopped in for a visit. It was very special and it was great to spend a whole day with the family. Uncle and Aunt are very proud of the children and what wonderful people they are growing into. It was great for the husbands to get to know each other and for the sisters to talk, bake and enjoy each other. It was sad to say good bye but we will see each other again really soon.

Mini Moo arrived in our home on July 3, 2009. She is a blessing and makes us laugh each day with her kitty antics. She looks like a little cow with her white coat and black spots. She is stealthy and we never quite know when she will pop into view. She is a treasure.

Little Dude is still living in the wonderful state of HI. He is enjoying it there and finished his National Guard Youth Challenge program in June. He has a beautiful girlfriend. He just obtained his Eagle Scout award on Monday, December 14, 2009. He is planning on having his Court of Honor soon on the USS Missouri. He is doing well and is now preparing to turn 18 and is hoping to join the military soon.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Journey with Jesus

JOURNEY WITH JESUS

“And the angel said unto them, fear not for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David, a Savior, which is Christ the Lord.” Luke 2:10-11

Here is a special journey we can all take with our scriptures and journals to help us get closer to Jesus during this Christmas season. We need to remember that the way He lived His life, Atoned in Gethsemane, Died on the cross, and Rose again on the 3rd day is why we celebrate His Birth. Enjoy the journey.

How do I see myself as a daughter of God, and a sister to my Savior, Jesus Christ? How do I fit into the plan? D&C 18:10, Luke 15:4-10, Alma 42:14-15

Do I let my light shine? 1 Nephi 16:18-24, Matthew 5:16, 3 Nephi 11:10-15

Do I serve my fellow brothers and sisters? Mosiah 2:17, Mosiah 23:10, Alma 26:3, 2 Nephi 3:24

What is the pure love of Christ? 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Alma 5:26, 33-34, Moroni 7:45-48

I hope you continue to enjoy your journey with Jesus every single day. I just want you dear sisters to know that I love each and every one of you and hope you find joy and peace during this Christmas season.

Renee Stuckrad
Vista 5th Ward Relief Society Presidency
1st Counselor

List of Accomplishments

So the list of accomplishments from Saturday to Monday night. I am only posting this, not to make you all in awe of me, but to show my self that I really did get a lot done. Sometimes no matter how much I do, I don't feel like it so I am doing this to have it in writing for myself.

Saturday: Breakfast date with hubby, shop at Target, shop at Michaels, shop at Sam's club. Two hours in yarden (raked and swept front, dug some holes for my spring flowers, took care of the jasmine vines, pruned our lilly, picked leaves out of the aloe garden, aerated the camillia, almost got stung by a wasp, pruned the bower vine, picked up cat poo from neighbor cat, picked weeds along the north side of house, etc.) Finished writing message in cards for the VA hospital service project.Got Christmas decoration boxes down and into the house. Washed and dried two loads of laundry, baked brownies for Ward Christmas party, cleaned up in bedroom. Took shower and Went to Christmas party at 6 p.m. and stayed until after 9 p.m. (There were only 4 of us cleaning the kitchen), came home and went to bed.

Sunday: Up at 6:30 to finish talk for Relief Society, ate breakfast, went to church for 3 hour block. Choir until after 1 p.m. Had lunch with my sweetheart and took 1 hour nap. 3:30 to 4:30 went with RS president to visit an sick elderly sister in the ward. I miss her so much!!! Read a book for an hour. Had dinner with my sweetheart. Now the rest are probably not approved Sabbath activities but..... Took down thanksgiving decorations and partially decorated the house with Christmas decorations. Did dishes and went to bed at 10 p.m.

Monday: Decided to stay home to work on list of things to do......Said good bye to my honey. Had breakfast, folded, hung and put away the laundry (YEAH!!), made draw string bags for angel tree gift cards service project. Made our Peanuts Christmas material pillow cases for the bed, finished putting up Christmas decorations, got the Christmas tree ready for the MR to put on lights, worked on a gift for Mom S, went to chorus practice for Christmas program, etc.

Whew!! This makes me tired just remembering that I did all of it!!!! Guess I can give myself a break now!

Time with my Sweetheart

One of my sisters commented on my last post about my sweetheart coming home to a wife in the afternoon. He loved it!! He was thankful to see me and we had lunch together and I flitted around and we talked and it was JOYFUL! He commented on how he wished we could do that more often. Me too! Mini Moo was sooooooooooo tired last night. She usually sleeps during the day....but Mom was home and working on things and so she was very nosy and into everything with me. She "helped" me make some drawstring bags. So yes, my dear sister, I LOVED IT!!!!

Monday, December 7, 2009

Stay at home day

Today I decided to stay home from work. I have too many projects, service and otherwise, that are pending. It is causing me much distraction. So it is rainy and very windy and I thought it would be a perfect day to just stay home and finish up some of my projects. I have done a lot and it feels good to get a few things done.

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Mini Moo Flu

I waited to write this post because I was very scared. Friday, Mini Moo stopped eating and did nothing but sleep in one place all day long. I was really afraid. Saturday was the same. She was also very hot. Sunday I put some water on her lips but she didn't like it. She was wobbly when she walked. I just was scared we were going to lose her. But Mom S said that cats get sick sometimes and it was probably just a kitty cold or flu. She had been sneezing for about a week before but I just thought it was dust or something. Mom S says that if they can't smell the food they won't eat. So finally on Sunday evening, she ate a little bit and then off and on all night we could hear some little munching going on and a lot of drinking of water. On Tuesday the wobbles are almost all gone and she actually walked down stairs. She played for a little bit last night and played hide and seek with her toy again. So all is well and Mini Moo is better. Guess the flu is not just for swine.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

The Book of Mormon

In the 5th hour today, our Bishop talked about the importance of the Book of Mormon in our life. He reiterated what our Stake President has been saying all year about the Book of Mormon.

We need to
READ IT
KNOW IT
SHARE IT

The Bishop then reminded us that Mormon did not edit the Book of Mormon he did what the Lord commanded him to do 3 Nephi 26:12

We need to liken the scriptures to ourselves. He also talked about how Nephi went through the same struggles as Laman and Lemuel and he CHOSE to not complain about it. He went to the Lord and the Lord SOFTENED his heart. I never thought of Nephi that way before. It was very enlightening.

If we make the Book of Mormon a daily part of our lives and live its teachings, we will learn and be guided how to solve our own problems.

House washed and clean

So our HOA has been on us for a few "stains". We finally bit the bullet and had the house washed on Friday after Thanksgiving. It is beautiful. They cleaned the windows inside and out and even the runners. They even cleaned the fence and our patio and the patio furniture. We feel very blessed. The company is two brothers and they did a marvelous job! The funny thing is that it rained hard the very next day. We have gone 100 or 200 days without rain and it absolutely poured. I thought it was funny. My sweetheart, not so much!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Date Night

Friday night was date night with my sweetheart. We actually had a two for one coupon and so we were able to go to a restaurant that we like. I was like a teenager all week waiting in anticipation for our night out. I thoroughly enjoyed it! I love him so much and I love the time we spend together talking and laughing and just being with each other. Thank you my sweetheart for always making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. I know I am the most blessed!!!

The Christmas Sweater Book Club

Thursday evening was our monthly book club. Our book for discussion was "The Christmas Sweater" by Glenn Beck. What a marvelous book about forgiveness, atonement, and gratitude. One of the sisters read to us quite beautifully the children's version. To begin the evening, we had our wonderful potluck and conversation then on to discuss the book. It was a delightful evening and we enjoy and love the host of our monthly event so very much!! We had a few sisters that talked about themselves and opened up so that we got to learn a few wonderfully interesting things as well.

RS girls night out

On Wednesday last week, our RS had our monthly girls night out. It was a lot of fun with good food and good catching up with each other. We had a craft night earlier in the month and so we set up a table for the sisters to finish that up. We had a swap table and I ended up with a cute little resting "mat" for Mini Moo. She loves it. It was a lot of fun! I just love the sisters in my ward.

Physical Inventory

Last weekend was the physical inventory at work. Saturday began bright and early at 5:30 a.m. and I finally got home around 3:30 p.m. I took 1/2 hour to just unwind and relax with a book. Then at 4:00 p.m. my sweetheart and I took the opportunity to spend some time in the yarden. We watered everything and raked the leaves front and back. By then daylight was waning. I said hello to all of my wonderful plants and we headed in for a relaxing evening. He takes such good care of me and won't let me overdo on those evenings. He had the laundry already done which is my weekend chore. Sunday, my sweetheart made me a delicious burrito breakfast. YUMMMO!! Then it was eat and run as I made it to the office at 9:00 a.m. We were done by 12:15 which is actually a record time for us. I was home and resting by 12:30. I just idled the rest of the day due to total mental and physically tiredness overtaking me. It is now done for another 6 months. I really missed going to church and seeing all of the beautiful sisters in the ward.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

New Calling

So today was full of tears joy and Forever Eternal Friends. Our Relief Society presidency was dissolved. We love Loini and she is a Forever Eternal Friend. I am now a 1st counselor in the Relief Society and I get the grand opportunity to learn and grow as I am now the Education Counselor. I look forward to learning these new things and having great experiences and memories with the sisters of the Vista 5th ward.

I am going to leave it at that this evening.

New Calling

So today was full of tears joy and Forever Eternal Friends. Our Relief Society presidency was dissolved. We love Loini and she is a Forever Eternal Friend. I am now a 1st counselor in the Relief Society and I get the grand opportunity to learn and grow as I am now the Education Counselor. I look forward to learning these new things and having great experiences and memories with the sisters of the Vista 5th ward.

I am going to leave it at that this evening.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Women's Leadership Meeting

Last week I attended a Stake Women's Leadership Training Meeting. We were spiritually fed to overflowing. I would like to make note of a few key points I would like to remember.

Sister Olsen - San Diego Temple Matron

The sisters are ministering angels. Ministering angels are women who urge the priesthood to do thier duties.

True joy is found in interactions with other people. If we want joy in our hearts we must forget ourselves and reach out to others. Don't wait for someone to call. If the spirit prompts, go to them and serve them.

3 Nephi 17: Ministry needs to be one on one to meet the needs of the individual.



Obedience to the gospel plan is the only way to have a Christlike life. If our hearts are prepared, the Holy Ghost will infuse blessings into our lives.



Sometimes the Spirit sends us somewhere without directions. We don't know what we are to do until we follow the prompting to go.



Sister from the LDS social services



2 Nephi 25:23 "Men are that they might have joy"



I am a Daughter of Heavenly Father who LOVES Me and I LOVE Him



We need faith to rule out fear. Moses saw Hell when he felt fear and lacked in faith.



Perfect means to make whole or complete. I can only do the best that I can do and then the grace of Christ makes up the difference. At the judgement, the Lord will ask for our heart.



Happiness is a choice. We get to choose how we feel about situations. We fill our lives with so many "good" things that we lose sight of the essential things.



She talked about the story in Ether about the vessels and how tight they were. Then she talked about how the Brother of Jared received direction from the Lord on how to get air in the vessels and how the Brother of Jared had to think about how to get the light in the vessels and this was how he saw the finger of the Lord. Then she went on to talk about how this is not the end of the story. The journey is very important. They got into the vessels and then the Lord "CAUSED" a ferocious wind. Without the ferocious wind they would not have been able to get to the promised land, their destination. The ferocious winds made the journey difficult but without them they would not have gotten where they needed to go. She likened this to how we all have adversity to help us learn and grow. It is difficult and painful at times, but without it, we cannot make it to our ultimate destination. To live with our Heavenly Father.

I am glad I went to the meeting and that the Lord provided these wonderful women to deliver such a spiritual feast. It truly was magnificent.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Be where you are supposed to be when you are supposed to be there

I had a bishop who is now in our Stake presidency. He has a saying "Be where you are supposed to be, when you are supposed to be there." I am so grateful for this message. I use it on nights like Thursday when I really did not feel like going to a Women's leadership Training meeting at the stake center. I have to admit, I was tired. Bone-tired. You know the tired I mean where your body aches and the last thing you want to do is ANYTHING at all.

Well I went to the meeting, I was filled inside to overflowing with coucil and advice that touched me deep to the very center of my soul.

Be Where You Are Supposed To Be, When You Are Supposed To Be There. I am thankful for the tender mercies and blessings of the Lord in my life.

Temple Blessings

On Wednesday, I was so tired and had a migraine developing. I called the sister I always take to the temple and told her I would try to find her another ride because I was not feeling well. I called the RS president, her carpool was already full. I left several messages with others in the ward to no avail. I finally just took some Aleve, said a prayer and picked up the sister for the temple. What a blessing in my life!!!!! I felt so much peace at the temple. We enjoyed each other's company to and fro. At the temple the RS Pres came up to me and told me they had a last minute cancellation in the carpool but too late to notify me. The other people from the ward said they received my message but too late to notify me. I know that it was Heavenly Father's hand in my life. Just a reminder that sometimes, it is not about what we want or think we need but what Heavenly Father KNOWS that we need.

Just say no....and it is okay

I heard this on Dr Laura: (written by Barbara Basser)...When Angela was very young,Age two to three or so,Her mother and her father Taught her never to say NO.They taught her that she must agreeWith everything they said,And if she didn't, she was spanked And sent upstairs to bed.So Angela grew up to beA most agreeable childShe was never angryAnd she was never wildShe always shared, she always cared,She never picked a fight,And no matter what her parents said,She thought that they were right.Angela the Angel did very well in schoolAnd, as you might imagine, she followed every ruleHer teachers said she was so well-bred,So quiet and so good,But how Angela felt insideThey never understood.Angela had lots of friendsWho liked her for her smileThey knew she was the kind of galWho'd go the extra mileAnd even when she had a cold,And really needed rest,When someone asked her if she'd helpShe always answered Yes.When Angela was thirty-three, she was a lawyer's wife.She had a home and family, and a nice suburban life.She had a little girl of fourAnd a little boy of nine,And if someone asked her how she feltShe always answered "Fine"But one cold night near ChristmastimeWhen her family was in bedShe lay awake as awful thoughts went spinning through her headShe didn't know why, and she didn't know how, But she wanted her life to endSo she begged Whoever put her here To take her back again.And then she heard, from deep inside, A voice that was soft and low It only said a single word, And the word it said was NOFrom that moment on, Angela knew Exactly what she had to do. Her life depended on that word, so this is what her loved ones heard:NO, I just don't want to NO, I don't agreeNO, that's yours to handleNO, that's wrong for meNO, I wanted something elseNO, that hurt a lot!NO, I'm tired, and NO, I'm busy, and NO, I'd rather not!Well, her family found it shocking, Her friends reacted with surprise But Angela was different, you could see it in her eyes For they've held no meek submission Since that night three years ago When Angela the Angel got permission to say NO.Today Angela's a person first, then a mother and a wife.She knows where she begins and ends, She has a separate life. She has talents and ambitions, She has feelings, needs and goals. She has money in the bank and an opinion at the polls.And to her boy and girl she says, "It's nice when we agree But if you can't say NO, you'll never grow To be all you're meant to be. Because I know I'm sometimes wrong, And because I love you so, You'll always be my Angels Even when you tell me NO"

I am thankful for..........

It is time to be thankful. That is one of President Hinckley's bes. I am thankful for my sweetheart, my kitty cat, my son, trials, sunrises and sunsets. I am thankful for earthworms, frogs and toads. I am thankful for butterflies, rolly polly bugs, and especially hummingbirds. I am thankful for flowers, plants, fruits and vegetables. I am thankful for family, friends, and church callings. I am thankful for a warm home in the winter and cool home in the summer. I am thankful for scriptures, books, movies, and tv. I am thankful for music, crafts, and baking. I am thankful for clothes, bracelets, and hair bobs. I am thankful for gold eye shadow, pink lipstick and lotion on a dry day. I am thankful for trees, leaves that fall in autumn time and crunch under my feet. I am thankful for my job, and tools to help with gardening. I am thankful for hoses to keep me from carrying buckets of water. I am thankful for love, charity, faith, and hope. I am thankful for cinnamon rolls and hot cocoa. I am thankful for chocolate that melts in my mouth.

I am thankful for a Heavenly Father that loves ME!

Visit from Sis and family

I was very blessed to have my skinny sis visit with her family. We got to spend a whole day together and it filled my heart and soul with joy! In Sacrament meeting we sang "Families can be together forever" and it had special meaning being able to look out at the congregation and see my beautiful sister and her wonderful family. To know that I can be with them too was a joy beyond words.

To my beautiful sister: Thank you for your unconditional love and sweet spirit. You inspire me to be a better person.

To my wonderful brother (in-law): Thank you for taking such wonderful care of my sister and loving her and making her feel like a princess. You are a blessing.

To my Nieces and Nephews:

#1: You are such a beautiful daughter of a Heavenly Father that loves you so much. Thank you for talking to your uncle and filling us in on the things going on in your life.
#2: You have gotten so tall. Thank you for helping your family so wonderfully and being such a fine young man.
#3: The cat made from pipe cleaners was truly an art piece. It now has a magnet and is on our fridge. You have a true talent young man.
#4: I am so glad we can share the love of books and literature. I am thankful for your sweet smile. Let me know how your plant survived the journey.
#5: Miss mischievious. You remind me of when I was a little girl. I loved the pink braces and the trick with the magnets. Always keep smiling and making the world so wonderful because you are a part of it.
#6: I am so glad you got to see Little Joe and that you were able to find so many treasures to take back with you. I found an aligator lizard in my yard this week and thought of you.
#7: My little monkey. You are a light in my life. Thank you for being so special and wonderful. I wish I knew how many cookies you were able to put into that small belly of yours.
#8: The little one. The next time I see you, you will be out of diapers. WOW! You are getting so big. It was great to hear all of the words and see you doing so well. I loved the "pizza pizza pizza" as you were coming down the stairs for dinner.

You are all too sweet. I hope you had fun and please know that your uncle and I enjoyed you so very much! Til next we meet, I love you :-)

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Sister Visit

We had such a wonderful time with skinny sis and family. They came to church and I could not stop smiling. It was fun. Then we came home and had lunch, made cookies, and just enjoyed chatting and getting caught up on hugs and such. Too much fun. The kids are a delight and it was fun watching them get to know their Uncle. He was having fun too! He told me later that he could totally see why I am always talking about the littlest one. She is so very cute. Of course when I was hugging her good bye it dawned on me that the next time I see her, she will be out of diapers. Of course I cried..... After the Mamoth left my sight we went back in the house. We had told the children they did not have to clean up. They are on vacation after all. When my sweetheart and I got upstairs prepared for clean up project, my jaw dropped to the floor. Those children had almost every single item back in its proper spot. Basically the only things left were those things they did not know where they belonged in the first place. They are a delight.

#1 got to talk to her Uncle and Myself until I think she is completely talked out. Hello fellow twilighter

#2 Getting so big. Thank you for helping so much with the little ones. It was nice getting to know you better. Next time you will be taller than dad.

#3 Thank you for the awesome cat made out of pipe cleaners. I have glued a magnet and it is now on the refridgerator. Your talent is too good for words.

#4 Hello fellow reader. You are such a beautiful young lady. I love to hear you laugh and see your bright smile. Keep me posted on your plant.

#5 You have such a light in your eyes that is awesome. You are also a little bit mischievious. I can totally relate. I love the pink braces and the trick you did with the magnets.

#6 Sorry little Joe didn't come out to play for you. I am glad you got to see him. I will watch and see if I can get a picture. I am glad you found so many "treasures".

#7 My little monkey. You are just plain and simply a delight. I am not sure where you put all of the cookies but I am glad you enjoyed them. It was fun seeing you and hugging you again. You make me smile :-)

#8 The baby. What can I say to the little cutie pie. You are talking so much and it was funny hearing you say "pizza, pizza, pizza, pizza, etc." when it was time for dinner. I was touched when you said "Goodbye Auntie Nee". See you soon and no more diapers.


As you can see they all have separate little personalities. It was a joy. I look forward to seeing you all again.

Monday, October 19, 2009

New Shoes

What a difference a pair of shoes can make. In March of this year I bought a Big Chain Store pair of tennis shoes for $11. Now I absolutely love this Big Chain Store. It is my favorite place to shop. They are awesome and I bought the shoes because they were such an awesome deal. Now I am a pretty big person and I wore a few holes in my shoes. I felt like I was walking on an angle. My legs have been very achy and I have not been liking to walk because of the pain. I just thought it was my weight. Well in Laughlin they have an outlet store for a name brand tennis shoe. I was talked into buying a pair. Very reasonably priced for this name brand but still nowhere near the $11 mark. Within a few minutes I could TOTALLY tell the difference. Within an hour the pain in my left leg was completely gone, my limp was gone and my sciatic pain had moved from all the way down my right leg to just down to my knee. What a relief. I can walk almost pain free. All it took was a good pair of walking shoes. WOW! Who knew? I LOVE these shoes and wish I could get a pair disguised as dress shoes for church and work. I will have to see what I can do about that!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Laughlin Zoo

Did you know that Laughlin has a zoo? Well they don't technically have a zoo but here is what we saw in one evening on our river walk. We were on the river "boardwalk" if you will. Looking down to the river we usually just see the beautiful ducks and sucker fish. Huge fish. Looks like they are 2 to 3 feet in length. Anyway we look and there are all these people gathered around. There was a family of raccoons. Mommy had two babies and then there were two males one smaller than the other. The smaller one kept growling at the bigger one. The bigger one was too busy standing on his back feet and begging for food. Actually came all the way up to the railing. He looked at us and then turned around and walked down the rocks back to the river. He actually swam to where the ducks were when he thought they were getting more bread than he was. Then he came on shore and left little raccoon foot and hand prints. It was adorable. We walked with the mommy for a while after she left. There was also a skunk family at the river. The raccoons and skunks just live and let live and don't bother each other. There was a cat under the bridge and he was so cute. Black with little white paws. Then there was an otter. He swam to shore came on shore and then turned around and swam away. Guess he was doing his excercise laps. Then what with people watching and we had a grand time at the Laughlin zoo!!!

Home again safe and sound

We had a Marvelous time in Laughlin with Mom and Dad S. They now have pantry shelves, fridge and freezers full and more. So this time we are sure that they will have enough until our next visit in April 2010. We had a lot of fun walking walking and more walking. We felt like pioneer children at the end of the week. We laughed a lot and talked until we could talk no more. It was nice and as with all nice and wonderful things, the time flew by and ended way too soon for all of us. Mini Moo was a trooper. She did not "get even" as some cats will and is just wanting lots of lovies. She is a wonderful pet and friend. She laid on my lap this afternoon for almost 2 hours!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Conference of answers

So I had my list of questions in my mind that I hoped and had faith would be answered during conference. The windows of heaven were truly opened and I received so much love from Heavenly Father. Every single one of my questions were answered plus many others that I did not think of until the answer was there and then I remembered so many things that I have been concerned over and pondering. It truly is a blessing to have a living prophet and to know that Jesus Christ is our Savior and leads this church. I am grateful for a Heavenly Father that knows each of us and me personally and loves us and me so very much!

Weekend of Wonderful things

This weekend was so awesome! First of all I felt better than I have in almost a month! No cold, no sinus pressure and pain and my depression lifted. I found the energy to work in my yarden! Muscles pain of that nature is a blessing to me. It makes me feel accomplished. I made a poster for Jim's birthday and decorated the house while he went to get his hair cut. It was so funny because I wasn't quite done and the garage door was opening and I ran into the craft room and scared Mini Moo so bad she started running all over then ran back into the craft room across the craft table, onto and over the window ledge, jumped over the chair. It was so funny!!! Poor thing, I scared her so bad. Wish I could have captured it on video. Anyway then I decorated the house for Halloween and Jim helped me with boxes and putting things on the upper ledge. I will try to take pictures soon and put them on the blog. Then I made 3 batches of cookies. For bosses birthdays this week and to take on our trip. It was fun.

It is good to feel alive again!

Weekend of Wonderful things

This weekend was so awesome! First of all I felt better than I have in almost a month! No cold, no sinus pressure and pain and my depression lifted. I found the energy to work in my yarden! Muscles pain of that nature is a blessing to me. It makes me feel accomplished. I made a poster for Jim's birthday and decorated the house while he went to get his hair cut. It was so funny because I wasn't quite done and the garage door was opening and I ran into the craft room and scared Mini Moo so bad she started running all over then ran back into the craft room across the craft table, onto and over the window ledge, jumped over the chair. It was so funny!!! Poor thing, I scared her so bad. Wish I could have captured it on video. Anyway then I decorated the house for Halloween and Jim helped me with boxes and putting things on the upper ledge. I will try to take pictures soon and put them on the blog. Then I made 3 batches of cookies. For bosses birthdays this week and to take on our trip. It was fun.

It is good to feel alive again!

Face Book Page

So the new thing in the stake is to have a facebook page. I have now created a facebook page and I don't know what to do next. I guess it is a new thing to learn and grow at!

Even Beans Have A Season

It was a sad event at our home this evening. I picked the last 6 beans and then pulled the plants to put in the yard waste can. I have had so much fun with my beans this year that it was kind of sad to see them be done and over. There were many little inch worms on the plants. Too cute. I love worms like that! Anyway this bean season is over and now I get to move on to planting my peas and garlic. To everything there is a season. New smiles as the baby peas grow.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Hummingbirds

On my walk at lunch today I got to the end of the path where I turn around to go back to work and what did I see but 3 hummingbirds chasing each other. Then they split up and I just stood there and watched one of the hummingbirds for a few moments. It made my day and made me smile.

Hummingbirds are very special to me. One day I was really depressed. I had been feeling depressed for several weeks and I was feeling really bad about myself. I went outside to work in the yarden and a hummingbird came and hovered about 1 foot in front of my face. It hovered for several seconds. They usually don't get that close.

I really felt like it was an answer from Heavenly Father that He knows who I am and that it is all okay. I am okay and I am one of His daughters. He knows who I am!

So now every time I see a hummingbird, it is a gentle reminder that Heavenly Father loves me.

Mini Moo-Adventure

Oh my goodness. So last night I was in my craft room working on a service project that includes some sewing. I left the drawer that I keep the fabric in open so that I could access it easier. Mini Moo hopped inside to look around and I thought nothing of it until she disappeared and the drawer started mysteriously moving on its own. I thought uh oh, there is something wrong with this picture. She had somehow squeezed through the back of the drawer, about 3 inches high and is now BEHIND the drawer. Oh my goodness! Jim came and we had to figure out how to remove the drawer to get her out. What an adventure! I picked her up and she was Purring!!!


I told her there is a reason that the saying is "Curiosity Killed the Cat"..... Oh Mini Moo you make our life so interesting.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Supportive Sweetheart

I am so grateful for my sweetheart that helped me set up for a baptism at church yesterday. We set up the chairs, put out the hymn books and put some paper goods in the kitchen.

I love him so much!

Mini Moo personality is growing

Mini Moo is really showing her beautiful personality. We have so much fun playing with a piece of ribbon every evening. She meets me at the door at night. She is enjoying the attention she is getting and she is turning into a lap and petting cat. She is not 100% converted but she is liking it more every day.

We love her and she is so beautiful!

Daughters of our Heavenly Father

I really enjoyed the General Women's Broadcast. I am so glad to part of an organization of women that are striving to do what is right. I was so pleased that the talks focused on us being daughters of our Heavenly Father, Visiting Teaching, and the temple.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Week of Rest

I have really not been well last week so I did not accompish too much. I did attend book club and we watched the movie "A tale of two cities". It was a great movie. Long but oh so good. I recommend it for anyone who wants to put perspective in their lives and to see a beautiful love story. It also makes me glad for the court system we have. It may not be perfect but it is better than a lot of other things.

Then this last week we had our Enrichment evening. We had a getting to know you game that was unique and a lot of fun. Then we all had to write an anonymous thing about ourselves on a piece of paper. Then everyone picked one from the bowl and read it and we had to try to figure out who it was. It was so fun and we really learned a lot from each other. It was a dessert potluck and then in the meantime the RS presidency was doing the visiting teaching interviews. It was quite the success but I was really glad to come home and go to bed.

This weekend was Stake Conference and we had the grand opportunity to have Elder Cordoba from the 70s. It was a spiritual feast. The focus was on family. He stressed to us the importance of family prayer, FHE, wholesome family activities, and family gospel study. He also talked about how we need to find balance for family, work, church callings, and ourselves. It was great.

I got to talk to two of my beautiful sisters this weekend and it was a joy in my life. I am now going to log off and work on some other things but wanted to let you all know I am hanging in there and getting better each day.

Have a great week upcoming. It is sure to be awesome!

Scare Cat

The scare cat worked!!!! The neighbor cat came over and tried to attack mini moo through the window. The scare cat went off and fell. She got scared by the cans and went home. She has not been over since....at least not to mess with mini moo.

Monday, September 14, 2009

If I have a cold why am I hot

I have a cold and yet I am hot. I feel crummy. It has been a while since my last cold and now I really appreciate being well. I am tired, I mean bone tired. I am very weak and I did not go anywhere this weekend, not even the temple or church. I think I might have a sinus thing going on. Anyway, they call it a cold but then why do we get so hot and clammy?

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Hot and Steamy

Still hot and muggy. 77 degrees today but with 75% humidity. It is yucky! Anyway for FHE the beans were 1/2 of the harvest. There are more growing and more flowers so I am hopeful for a few more harvests. It is fun to watch our freezer section with beans in it.

I have the Relief Society presidency message/lesson tomorrow and it is going to be a three way tie in of self-reliance, service to others, and relief society. I hope the Spirit will help me to put all of things from my heart and mind into verbal words.

The company picnic was a lot of fun. I participated in the water balloon toss and my sweetheart works at the park we held the picnic at. So when his shift was over he came down to our picnic and shared it with us. Quite the treat. We had snow cones and popcorn and it was just downright fun!

The cat next door keeps torturing and taunting mini moo so I made some scare cats outside. I took some wire fencing stuff that was here when we moved in. I had saved it and I put some soda cans on it with yarn and when she attacked mini moo it made a horrible sound and scared her away. She hasn't been back but I am keeping it up for a while to make sure. I don't like it when people don't follow the rules. We are not supposed to have outdoor cats in this assocation. Oh well, I hope this will work.

Fly "Cat"cher

So mini moo was cheecheeing. That is when cats make this funny noise and puff air out of their cheeks and are stalking something. Usually they can see birds or something. Anyway, mini moo is cheecheeing and I am trying to find the source. So my sweetheart says she did the same thing the other day over a fly and that it was really funny to watch. Sure enough there is a fly flying around right at her level almost like it was taunting her. She started stalking it and chasing it and pawing at it and jumping for it. It was so funny. We were laughing out loud! She makes us laugh and we love her so much!

Sunday, August 30, 2009

Hot Summer Nights

So this week has been unbearably hot. We do not have air conditioning and it has been hotter than ever and going strong. It is usually not this hot for this long this close to the beach but there you have it. So we are trying to stay still and minimize movement as much as possible. Our poor mini moo. Her last owner had air conditioning and I know she is miserable. She just lays on the tile and tries not to move or have anyone touch her right now.

This too shall pass. Just trying not to melt. Picture if you will the scene in the Wizard of Oz.

Hooked on yarn this week had 8 people! It was awesome. We usually only have 3 so I am hoping the new people will continue to come.

Temple night was a blessing and I know the hand of the Lord is in all we do. We hit horrible traffic and thought we would miss our session. I carpool with a sister I visit teach. Anyway, we barely made it. I am telling you, there is no way we should have but it was like time stood still or something.... AWESOME.....

Second harvest of beans was as big as the first. I am looking forward to FHE to see how many more I can pick and can.

Hope you all had a great week too!

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Laundry first then fun things working

Enrichment evening was awesome. We had a great turn out. A lot of primary and young women sisters attended. Unfortunately due to the venue being in a park, a lot of our senior sisters were unable to attend. We had about 30 sisters there which is awesome for us. Sometimes we have only had 5 sisters come.

I also was able to pick up my new scratchless glasses. It is always a treat to get a new pair of glasses. Then at Sam's club today we got me some sunglasses that actually cover your regular glasses. A little nerdy but very practical for all the uses I need them for.

Monday FHE was a blast picking beans and freezing them.

Tonight after yarden work, I will be making some cookies to fill the cookie bin and tomorrow afternoon I am trying my hand at home made bagels. I am also going to be bean picking again.

I finished the baby blanket for my friend's grandbaby and I have a cross stich project in the wings waiting to get started.

I guess I better get laundry done so I can have some fun!!!!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Pictures on Blog

First of all, I am so excited that I was able to put some pictures on my blog!! Yeah me and a huge thank you to my sweetheart!!

The camera is a little $10 job that you just aim and click. You don't have a chance to see how they turned out until you download them. Someday soon I hope for a real digital camera but in the meanwhile this will do for little items.

I hope you enjoy the pictures as they come over.

Mini Moo--Isn't she beautiful




Pictures of some of the yarden










These are some of my bean plants getting big. I will be picking beans for family home evening.




Sad strawberry plants











Small baby oranges, keeping fingers crossed












a sampling of the aloe vera garden



Saturday, August 15, 2009

12 years and going strong

On August 9, my sweetheart and I celebrated 12 years of married life together. I am so thankful for such a wonderful man to share my heart, dreams and life with. We spent the day quietly at home and just enjoyed talking together and spending the day with each other. Every Saturday is our day and we enjoy them every week. He is the love of my life and I don't know what I would do without him. "He is my life now!" (Twilighters will know what I mean by that). I am thankful for his support and love and I appreciate him and love him more with each rising and setting of the sun.

Pennies are Powerful

On Thursday evening we had our Gourmet Book Club and it was awesome. I was the presenter for the book "Three Cups of Tea". It was an enjoyable evening. Greg Mortenson is someone we can all get inspiration from. One person has done so much for the children, women, and men of Afghanistan and Pakistan. It is awesome to learn about brothers and sisters in other cultures and to learn how such a little bit helps so much. So we now have a pennies are powerful campaign in our book club. Every month we will bring our pennies and spare change and I made a container for them. We will then turn the money over to one of the sisters in our ward that spends a lot of time in Mexico helping with the orphanages down there. It is incredible how much we take for granted. We all donated toiletries, sheets, pillow cases, clothing etc. She was amazed at how many of the children were sleeping on raw mattresses and pillows. The children loved the donated items.

I will keep the blog posted on future inspirational events.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Fun week

We had an audit this week that we passed 100%. It was an internal audit from our parent company but it is still unheard of to not have at least one thing they find that they want to change so I am very proud of our department at work!!! Mini Moo is really starting to open up to us and we play every night now. She loves chasing bubbles and she is really funny to watch. Also, I have a ribbon that I use as a book mark that she loves when I play tug of war with it. She is feeling more at home and it is good. She is almost always smiling and purring. She does not like to be held or petted for very long at a time. She is a great addition to our family and we love her.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Great things coming.....

This week was a good work and very productive. Got a lot done at work this week. There were not any activities this week. Upcoming this week another ward invited me to a provident living activity that the sisters have once a month. It is going to be awesome to spend time with old friends (we were in 10th ward before), and to learn so new things and hopefully have some ideas to bring to Vista 5th ward. Our Gourmet Book Club is reading a book called Three Cups of Tea and I will do the presentation on the 2nd Thursday of August. It is a wonderful book and I encourage you all to read it. It will inspire you to great things and is especially uplifting.

Hears to great things ahead!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Busy as a bee and flitting like a butterfly

So far this is a very busy week. Last night for FHE, I caught up on my sewing and crocheting. Tonight I watered and did some yarden work. Tomorrow night is temple night, YEAH!! I love temple night. Thursday is "Hooked on yarn". The teacher is going to teach me how to crochet the edgings of fabric like the blanket at skinny sis's house. I am excited. I would like to use that on baby bibs. Then Friday I am hoping for some yarden time. Saturday will be catch up day!! Whew! Busy as a bee and flitting like a butterfly. I LOVE IT!!!!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Finished Twilight series

So I finished the twilight books. The 4th is my favorite. It has a few iffy moments but for the most part it is awesome. I finally got to watch the movie this weekend and I can't wait to buy it for my own. I am totally hooked. Watch out Gone with the Wind I have a new fascination now.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Some time to write

Well I had a free moment to write. Not much of interest happening this week. It is a bit warm and muggy in Vista this week. The humidity makes it feel warmer than it really is. It is probably equivalent to what the wind chill factor does to the temperature in the winter time. Mini moo is starting to warm up to us and her new home. She helps me say my prayers in the morning and read my scriptures. She purrs a lot and smiles a lot. She loves to be petted. She still doesn't like to be held a lot. We are trying to let her know that it is okay to come up on our bed. She wasn't allowed in her old home and they actually had those electric shock thingies for pets on some of the rooms. At first she was really hesitant to go into new rooms as you can imagine. But now she is feeling freer to roam around. The crooked neck squash has been yummy so far and my beans are growing taller. I think I should start seeing blossoms soon. Well that is all for now.

Love you all

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Twilight Addict

I just added the twilight addict blinky. I am currently reading the 4th book in the series and it is VERY HARD TO PUT IT DOWN!!!!

I am loving it.

Mini Moo

We have a new daughter named Mini Moo. She is a 4 year old cat. She was owned by a single guy. The owner's wife has not liked her since they got married a few years ago and it has been a strain on the relationship. Then they got a dog and the troubles got even worse. They moved the cat into the garage. The owner works with me and asked if we were ready for another cat. I talked to Jim and we decided to take her so she would not have to go to the shelter.

She is very beautiful. White with black spots that make her look like a little cow. That is why we are calling her Mini Moo. She had the name of Samantha before, they did not use it though. They called her cat and kitty. Hopefully she will learn her new name.

She is still a little jittery when noises occur but at least she is no longer hiding under the chairs. She actually is eating, drinking, and using her little box. We can hear her exploring at night opening cupboards and then we find the kitchen cupboards open in the morning. She is staring to warm up to us which is good because we fell in love with her from her pictures before we even met her.

WELCOME TO YOUR NEW HOME MINI MOO!!!!

The prophet garden

Our prophet garden is small this year but we are having some fun with it. I finally planted my beans and the plants are about as big as skinny sis's actual beans are. 3 inches tall. A friend gave me some crooknecked squash plants and we cut some of the fruit and dipped it in pancake batter and then deep fried it. YUMMO!!! I have never had squash taste so good. Talk about turning something healthy into something delightfully bad for you.

Little Joe is in our garden and jumped out of the strawbery plant the other day when I was watering and scared me half to death. He is about 1 inch long. I haven't seen him since then. Hope I didn't scare him away.

Our aloe vera plants are doing well too. I need to take the babies off of one of the mother plants this week. They get big really fast.

That is all we have going right now. It is fun to play in the dirt!!!

Graduate

Tobi graduated from his program in the Hawaii National Guard Youth Challenge program with a high school diploma. I am very proud of him. He will be going to Community College this fall and will be working until he is able to join the military. I had the opportunity to "meet" his girlfriend Becca on the phone. She is a real sweetheart and just entered the Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD. I know they will miss each other but she supported him while he was in Youth Challenge and I know he will support her through this.


GO TOBI JR!!!! GO!!!

Sunday, June 28, 2009

The best of weeks the worst of weeks

This has been the best of weeks and the worst of weeks to borrow from Dickens. Work was horrible. The entire payroll system crashed. We were lucky to get paid. But the awesome payroll manager strikes again and all will be well where pay checks are concerned. Missed temple night and worked through lunch but sometimes those are the prices I pay so to speak.

The best of times happened when my "Little Dude" (he is really not so little anymore) called and had his girlfriend on the line with him. So I got to meet her too. She sounds lovely and nice. She sounds very sweet and they were totally smitten with each other. I hope I did not keep them too long, only an hour on the phone. She is getting ready to report to Annapolis on Wednesday. Little Dude will be going to college and I am excited for him. He sounded so happy :-) and that makes me a happy mom :-)

Well, there is a charlies angels marathon that I am going to go and watch with my honey. I am also listening to our little garden frog named "little joe".

Love you all

Big Sis

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Good Week

It has been a good week here. I had some time to play in my yarden today. I really enjoy that. Girls Night out for Relief Society happened on Wednesday and I was able to announce a new club called Hooked on yarn for beginning crocheting and knitting. My son graduated from his program today and I am waiting to hear from him this evening. I better get going and work on my stuff for church. Just wanted you all to know I am still alive and doing well.

Love ya

Big Sis

The Birds

So my sweetheart and I were sitting in the family room last Saturday and we heard a couple of crows cawing. We were joking about how it sounded like they were calling to each other when a few crows landed on the roof of the house across the street. We thought about how weird it was when all of those crows started cawing and then from afar we heard other crows cawing. All of a sudden there were crows coming from all directions and there must have been about 50 crows on the roof across the street and in the trees etc. We were thinking it was starting to get a little creepy and had a small feeling of what Tippy Hendron (sp?) must have felt when she starred in Alfred Hitchcock's "The Birds". Then a couple of the crows cawed and they all flew away.

REALLY creepy!!!!

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Tribute to Gramps

A TRIBUTE TO GRAMPS

You touched our hearts in many ways and words cannot express the heartache we each feel with your physical absence. I know you are still here in spirit and really not so far away. I look forward to having you and Grams combined as guardian angels for your posterity.

We are comforted to know that you have found at last PEACE in the Lord Jesus Christ, JOY in the face of your sweetheart, our Grams, LOVE in the service of your family, HOPE in a glorious resurrection, hearing in both ears and youthful grace once more.

You have left a legacy of love that cannot be equaled. We are better people for having you to guide and teach us. I hope we will honor your name in all we do and become.

You taught us patience by your example in not only using a soft voice and kind words ( I cannot in memory recall a harsh or unkind word) and everlasting back rubs.

You taught us the value of hard work by taking good care of your home and family and spending time toiling in the soil and working hard to put food on the table.

You taught us patriotism by facing the foes of America and her friends abroad. You faced evil in one of its darkest hours and overcame it. You served those who could not serve themselves. The horrors you faced you overcame while in your silent humble solitude so you would not burden us with memories to painful to bear.

You taught us how to love, honor, and cherish by always treating your wife, our mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother with respect, dignity, devotion, and love. You taught us that we deserve to be loved, honored, and cherished.

You taught us that it is okay to find beauty in the creations of the Lord as you tenderly tended to plants, flowers, trees, vines and lawn. Your love of the outdoors and mountains has been passed down through the generations. Your love of fishing and hunting and camping and huckleberries was taught to us from our tiniest memories. You taught us to respect nature as we enjoyed the bounties we received.

You taught us that sometimes we can understand, feel, and learn more from a soft nod of the head and a smile than by a thousand words spoken.

In your last years, months, weeks, and days you taught us humility as you allowed your family to do for you what you no longer could do for yourself. Through your humility you taught us how to serve through words, actions, laughter, tears, music, song, heart to heart and spirit to spirit. You reconnected family ties once broken and gave opportunity for broken hearts to be mended.

I am ETERNALLY grateful for you GRAMPS and I look forward to a wonderful reunion someday…..

I Love You,

Nee

Saturday, May 30, 2009

My sweet sisters

Hello to my sweet sisters. I just need to send a much needed thank you to you and your beautiful families. I enjoyed my visit with all of you and appreciate the sacrifices made by your families so that we could spend time together in serving Gramps. I appreciate getting to know you again. My heart is full and I cannot express it all in words. As we served Gramps together, there was such a sweet spirit felt between all of us.

I love you are the best words to describe how I feel right this minute!

Marriage protected

It is good news I bring regarding marriage in CA. The California supreme court has upheld the passage of Prop 8. So for the time being marriage in CA will remain as between one man and one woman. Those same sex marriages performed before the passage of Prop 8 will remain in effect. I am just thankful that the supreme court listened to the twice voiced will of the people.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Home again

I am now back home after having a bittersweet visit with family. Our sweet dear Gramps is getting ready to leave this existence and enter the next one to be with his sweetheart. I am grateful for the knowledge the Gospel of Jesus Christ gives me that this is not the end but a new beginning for him. I also had the wonderful opportunity to renew my relationships with my wonderful sisters and their children. It was so wonderful!!! I got to see parents, aunts, uncles, and cousins that I have not seen in too many years.

Thank you all for the love you showed me as I visited you all.

My wonderful husband is very glad that I am back home with him. I am glad too. I missed him very much!!!